‘Dating’ a girl 👧 as a ‘Foreigner’

This ‘blog’ is about how started ‘dating’ a ‘Chinese girl’ and how does she’s become ready to ‘dating’ a ‘foreigner’.

One of my colleague who leave my office but I was in touch, and still I have her phone number in my phone contact, before going further i am going little back, I remember my first day when I arrived Guangzhou via Muscat from Riyadh by ‘Oman Airlines’.At Guangzhou airport my ‘Supply Chain Director’ and ‘China office Manager’ a “Chinese girl” came to pick me. I had to come ‘Guangzhou’ a day before but I returned from ‘Riyadh airport’ to my accommodation at midnight because my ‘Hr’ didn’t applied for my exit- re entry visa for China 🇨🇳 and Saudi.I already taken‘Boarding pass’ from ‘Oman 🇴🇲 Air’ and my luggage 🧳 already boarded in Airlines but when I went for Immigration, immigration officer 👮‍♀️ told me don’t have visa I called my driver called ‘Hr’ but didn’t pick my call, mean time ‘Oman Air’ staff told me that take time for arranging visa, later when I called Boss he wasn’t picking call but from my room partner I got number of Senior Manager of my Company and I called him at late night but he picked my call and informed my ‘Super Boss’ he called me and said wait a minute  but ‘HR’ failed to do arrange exit-re entry after that my boss told me ‘go to home’.I wait at ‘Riyadh Airport’ till late night to take my luggage from Airline.

A day later I have again same airline, at same time and from same airport ‘Riyadh’. My flight ✈️ was connecting flight from Riyadh-Muscat-Guangzhou. When I was in Riyadh office before traveling I have sent my flight schedule send to ‘China office Manager’.When I arrived ‘Muscat’ I got Airport WiFi that time I got message where you are ? from my China Office Manger,I informed them what happened with me a day before.When I was arriving Guangzhou Airport I was thinking 🤔 those who are coming to pick me.At Riyadh Airport I exchanged Riyal to 300 US 💵 $.When reached at Guangzhou Airport I found my ‘Boss’ who came to pick me.I took my luggage with Airport trolley till ‘Taxi’ stand. I was going to left ‘trolley’ at airport but my manager told me you can take it taxi.I was sited near to taxi driver,I was surprised to see new world 🌎 in front of me at Airport express way,I was going to experience, exploring and new people in China 🇨🇳 which’s world second largest economic 

They dropped me at 17th floor of  ‘Golong taxa’ building and after kept my luggage they take me to a Arabic restaurant for dinner.Next morning they called me for a breakfast, during breakfast my ‘China office Manager’ a Chinese girl asked me that ‘if you like some one a Chinese girl would you like to marry her’ ,I said ‘no’ and most important my parent will not accept her because i am belong to a traditional Indian middle class Muslim family. At that time ,my mother & father was alive.I wrote last some sentence because how my mind changed from no marry to any foreigner for me to become yes.

My mind changed not changed but some one ☝️ tried to change my mind.Six months of staying at China ,when my Company CEO and owner came to China and I went to bring him from taxi to office.In lift my CEO told me that “why not you have any girl friend here even you’re handsome boy you’re wasting your time here”.This sentence boosts me to find a girl for dating. Mean time I contacted my ex colleague through ‘We Chat’ , I told her that introduce me any girl 👧 first she asked me ‘how much you have salary’ , I said her ‘5000US$ , then she introduced me a girl. About one and half year later she’s become impressed by me.When I called her in beginning of friendship with her she ignored & declined even not answered of my sent messages to her through WeChat.After view of my many posted moments at WeChat where my post of ‘Gym’ activities, my traveling pictures by Airlines almost 5 to 6 times in a week and videos & images of good restaurant where I am eating ,my food in best restaurants of China ,my trip to ‘Dubai’ ,Oman and ‘Riyadh’ and so many things attract her towards me. And finally one day she send me message that she is wanted a job and she told me to recommend her.I was a foreigner in China and a Chinese girl was asking me for a job , it was surprised for me.I tried my best and I talk to my all contacts in China and to my supplier for her job.From my contacts many contact to her but problem with her that she’s wanted a job in Guangzhou city only with 10,000RMB. How I attract her some times , I use some tricks ‘image’ of  ‘Gold’ that I had taken in Riyadh send her as a message when she asked me I said her ‘ by mistake’ it went,some times I send her ‘ hard copy of US$’ in her message that is given by my friend to transfer US$ to his account from ‘Hong Kong’.From their she is started to ‘like me’. One day I was have a domestic flight from ‘Guangzhou’ to ‘Ningbo’ in the early morning that’s why I was awake and was posing ‘my moments’ at WeChat ,when she viewed my moment she send me personal message through ‘WeChat’ asked me you aren’t slept 🛏 yet now, I explained her I have to go Airport... She told me ‘Faiz 🤙 me’ but I have given excuse to her. Many times I excuse and denied her request of call.Now time was going day by day and now it’s my turn to move on for further stage... After judging her rudeness and so many things I decided to talk to her for next level ...

Before she has given many signs to me that she’s attracted towards me like i was sited at Riyadh airport for my final exit to India in 2018 I send her videos of Airport’s runway from my boarding gate where fly nas was at parking at gate,Saudi Airlines and Air Gulf was at taxing with I have about 20,000 Saudi riyals in my hand.She told me to take away with me with you together. I stayed silent.

One day I was traveling with high speed train to ‘Yangjing’ for inspection of a product , now I understood and got confidence that when I will talk to her for ‘dating’  and for ‘Starbucks Coffee’ she will not deny to me , and it’s become true.When I was traveling for ‘Product Audit’ to ‘Jiangmen City’ during traveling I send her message that ‘I am wanted to meet you’ ,this confident I got for her after one and half year after become friend to her then she said why ‘ I said I am wanted to date you’. She send me an ‘emoji’ of ‘smile’.

Next day I was a flight in a morning to ‘Taizhou’ for inspection of  ‘Steam Press’. In ‘Taizhou’ at evening I was going for dinner with ‘Factory Owner’ when I was on the way to restaurant suddenly I got message from her that tomorrow can we meet each other?But problem tomorrow I was have a flight for Guangzhou in the evening so that could not meet her. I said to her that at late night i will arrive Guangzhou because from ‘Taizhou’ I was have a flight at 7 pm and if flight at time I will arrive about 9:30 pm. After that I was have a flight for India from Guangzhou-Kunming-Kolkata-Patna. After more than 1 and half months stay at Patna I travelled back China by route Patna-Kolkata-Thailand-Guangzhou and at mid night I arrived Guangzhou about 2 am in the morning and same day after 2 hrs I was have a flight for ‘Yiwu’ for inspection as I arrived Guangzhou, I called her at midnight and she answered me  and said will talk tomorrow.From airport to Factory I stopped at ‘Starbucks’ for a Coffee mean time I called her and promised to meet her.

When I was in office & after our office I went to drop my Chinese colleague to her house by Metro but I stopped & came out from ‘Metro’ and from ‘Metro’ station I called her and said I am here , would you like to meet me ,my colleague went to her house by metro.She said yes come to ‘Starbucks’ coffee. I come out from metro station and bought ‘Red flowers’ it was winter and I remembered i was wear ‘a red jacket’.A man wear red jacket 🧥 with a flower 🌹 in a hand went to ‘Starbucks’ and I called her for her choice/flavored of Coffee, she said ‘‘Ice Coffee and nuts” . I bought her choices and a ‘Capacinu’ for my self. I used my SBI debit card to swap for payment and take ‘Invoice’. When she came I used to give a Chair for her and she wanted to smoke and I use fire of her cigarette.I had taken ‘Invoice’ from ‘Starbucks’ it should be two different ‘Invoice’ but two coffees and nuts in one invoice, which’s easily found by my boss but he accepted and was paid by ‘Company Account’.After late night calling and conversation irritate me. One day she was coming from ‘Shenzhen to Guangzhou’ by taxi 🚖 and when she arrived Guangzhou ,she called me that she fought with taxi 🚖 driver please come Faiz and later said send me your apartment location I am coming. I send and share her my building location at her WeChat and as she arrived outside to building I pick her because building security will not allow her to enter into building and need electronic card for lift.In my apartment I was sharing apartment with my colleague but from last one week he was leaving in hotel because her wife and daughter came from Egypt 🇪🇬. But on that day my friend’s wife was going back to Egypt and my friend went airport to drop her. I informed my friend don’t come to apartment and stay one more night at hotel.I paid taxi 🚖 fair to her by WeChat digital payment when she came to my apartment. As she came we talk some times and later I send her to room for sleeping 😴. Mean time I got call bell 🛎 at my apartment door 🚪 when I went to open I surprise to see my friend with luggage 🧳 at 🚪 door.I explained him about her but his reaction was 😊.

He went to his room and I came to my room for sleeping 😴 mean time she called me for IPhone charger 🔌 I give her , she asked me about my friend ,I tell her not problem.Next day in a morning I said to my friend ‘ you go office I am coming later’. I cooked ‘Milk tea’ for her after taking milk tea 🍵 her comment is like any Indian ‘Masala 🍵 tea’.Some one give me ‘bottle opener’ and she asked me to give her for opening ‘red wine 🍷bottle ’. I have given her. I dropped her to taxi 🚖 and I take taxi for my office.

Few days later she was planning to a trip for vacation and she was discussing with me about this trip and suddenly I transferred 1000 RMB to her for flight ✈️ booking.When their plan canceled she returned me . Suddenly we met again at ‘Starbucks’ with same situation like first meeting. But from here she became angry 😤 and leave her coffee ☕️ and went.

But most important and I never thought that it could be also possible that the girl who’s given number and WeChat to me  for other ,I will attract towards her also. When I said her ‘why I date other to whom don’t know enough from long time why not you’ first she delete my ‘WeChat’.But a year later I was at my office, suddenly I send her friend request but she accepted and so on.. And after our conversation and phone call we decided to meet each other.I was coming from Yiwu to Guangzhou Airport and she was coming from Ningbo to Guangzhou Airport, We decided to meet each other. She had to come at ‘T1’ terminal  and I arrived at ‘T2’ terminal .I used to Airport bus to go ‘T1’. I was waiting her at ‘T1’ terminal, suddenly she came from my back side and said ‘Faiz’ .After that I dropped her by taxi to her apartment... but later after conversation... and she is wanted a house and car before marriage.....After that we become separated when I came to India 🇮🇳 and stuck in India because of  ‘Covid-19’.....

For me all above creation of situations was just a fun and enjoying moment, nothing serious for any girl 👧.

I was just wanted a non forgetting moments of my life so that after a long time when I remember & realized my craziness which was not in my own country it’s a foreign.

But before all above ,in May 2017 , my schedule for inspection was in Zhengzhou city nearest airport to ‘Food Chopping’ Factory. When I arrived Zhengzhou airport I remember I was wear a black half shirt and Jeans with black googles ,at airport a girl 👧 modern wear with modern dress 👗 came to pick me ,she first given a water bottle to me and take me to Factory 🏭 with 2- hrs drive between 2- hrs of drive I am wanted a mosque 🕌 because on that day was Friday, she found Mosque for me and I read Namaz of Friday alone there later she asked me what do you need when you arrive Factory 🏭 I said I need Coffee ☕️ as I reached there.

Mean time we talk each other almost at all topics from personal,professional and related to education also.

I am wanted to meet her again that’s why I am wanted to find some rejection point, it’s my good luck 👍🏻 that I found it. Next inspection cost was paid 📝 by  Factory and Factory agreed for it but next day when I arrive airport his colleague a another boy 👦 came to pick me.😃😃😃😃

There was one more story was going on together with a colleague in the office.I had noticed many times she looked at me in the office, after office when going for catching Metro she turned back for me...and so on.. many times when I create horror to one of my colleague then she also turned back to me.Suddenly I am started my interest towards her by many ways like when she send messages to me related to work I replied her ‘anything for you any time’ . I tried to get her personal number from her and I asked her to call me when I sent her messages in group of WeChat.But she understands me and my aim didn’t give me, I planned it such as so that she could call me or send me her number.She is really a Chinese beauty with intelligent mind . Latterly I brief her about my plan and told her I have your number but I am wanted to take it from you. I asked her for a dinner together she didn’t declined but she said take all girls of office also other wise they will be disappointed ☹️,this statement also attracted towards her. I invited all girls because of her statements but my office manager not accepted. She lived office and given one month noticed but I and my friend don’t know about her living the office.When her last day in the office I was in a business trip, in the evening my Egyptian colleague informed me about her and I and Egyptian friend met her each other in the ‘Mado’ for dinner 🥘 and we discussed about her. That girl after leaving our office delete my WeChat contact and blocked my phone. I called her by other number & expressed my feelings to her I started like you, can’t live without you,going to die really ‘I love 💕 you’ . Please come back to my life said to her come out from taxi was started paying to taxi driver by kept her phone on ‘hold’ .Mean time she disconnected my call and blocked that number also.

Habibi why did you came at our flat when I already told you stay one more night at Hotel.... I lost golden opportunity...I don’t think I will get it again..  No problem... You help me to be a gentle man 👨...Thanks my brother...

Crazy 😜